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  • Kristina

    Hey Buck & Debbie :D

    So theres this guy in the theater program I’m in who has the creepiest crush on me. He’ll literally come up next to me and stare at me until i say something. He always sits behind me and constantly takes pictures of me when I’m not looking. He recently found out my facebook and my AIM so he’s constantly trying to video call me and photo stalking and all this stuff. To make it worse, I have a love scene with him & I have to stage kiss him. He CONSTANTLY wants to practice it. I don’t know what to say to him without being mean because I’m not into him at all. But I don’t just wanna be like EFF OFF because we need some stage chemistry :\
    What should I do?

    Love you guys<3 :)

  • Bekkah

    Dear Buck & Debbie

    Sooo I’m confused. Me and this guy were dating last year for 2 months and then we broke up. We still kept in touch but i didn’t really get involved with being a close friend of his because i didn’t agree with the girls he was dating after me. A couple days ago we were talking and all of the sudden he starts flirting with me and tells me that he wants to see me this weekend. I still really like this guy and he says he likes me too. I can’t get him out of my head and i don’t know what will happen when i see him. What do i do?
    LOVE YOU!!!! <3
    – Bekkah <3

  • NancyLovesMJ

    Dear Buck, HELP! Im stuck in the middle!! I am in a group with 4 friends. My 1 friend Bre has a BF and thats a long story of its own. She has changed for the worse since she’s been with him, she’s a hypocrite, and she doesnt recognize her mistakes. She gets jealous when I hang out with the other 2 friends but she has told me she hates them because she thinks they are doing bitchy things when in reality she is. I want the 3 of the to get together and talk it out while I mediate. Is that a good idea?

  • Jesse

    Dear Buck and Debbie,

    I would greatly appreciate help, though I realize there are more deserving people.

    Anyway, May 2009 I came out to my parents as transgender. Immediately, my mum, with whom I’ve always been extremely close, rejected me and there was a point at which I was going to be kicked out and possibly disowned. It’s been over a year and things have gone back to how they were. Exactly as they were. My mum does not accept me at all, if I even mention it, she cries or starts yelling at me. I was trying to get her to realize that I’m still her child but she just came after me with verbal attacks, telling me she doesn’t “want a dyke for a daughter” and to “never talk to [her] until [I'm] a girl again.” I want nothing else than to do that but it’s not exactly something I can snap my fingers and change. My dad seems to be better about it, he puts more responsibility on me, similar to my older brother.

    I have no haven either. As many know, high school can be hell. I get spat at, things thrown at me, verbal abuse, and just horrible messages written on my locker. The faculty doesn’t help, they want names and I simply don’t know these kids. I don’t have any friends to stick up for me.

    I apologize for how long this is and how much I’m complaining but PLEASE. I’m just so sick of this life, I can’t take it. I would appreciate advice, but understand I’m not an important case.

    -Jesse.

  • Billie Jean

    Dear Buck,

    I have a beautiful son named Crystan (prounced Chris-Tan). He is my world and I would LOVE it if he had a relationship with his father. However, he is CONVINCED that Crystan is NOT his son. I was monogamous in our relationship and even though we’ve done not one, not two, but THREE DNA/Paternity tests, he STILL thinks Crystan is NOT his son. How can I convince the dad once and for all that the kid IS his son?

    Thanks,

    Billie Jean

  • Billie Jean

    Oh and hello to Debbie too, is she is so lucky to read this with you. :)

  • scrtkid

    Please help me. I’ve been trying at this for almost 4 months now! :/

    Dear Buck,

    My name’s Kellen, I’m 14, and last April, I came out to my class as bisexual. But for some odd reason, even though I felt comfortable doing that, I never feel comfortable revealing that to people who don’t know yet. In other words, I have many female friends and whenever they talk about like, cute/hot guys, I wanna join in but I never feel comfortable doing so because that would mean telling them I’m bisexual. Is this normal, and is there anything I can do?

    Thanks in advance,
    Kellen

  • Jesse

    In all respect to your situation, this sounds similar to the Michael Jackson song, “Billie Jean.”

    Hope this gets sorted out in the best interests of Crystan (lovely name).

    -Jesse.

  • RJ N.

    Hey Buck….. :( I just learned that I might be moving due to our family filing bankruptcy. I know that there’s nothing that I can really do… but worst case scenario, I might have to change schools. I don’t think that i’d be able to handle it, seeing as how i finally enurged from my shell…. any advice?
    Thanks, RJ

    PS: I was the person with the cleaning question last show and want to let you know that your advice worked ^_^ Thanks so much!

  • RJ N.

    PSS: My mom also found 2 part time jobs earlier today!!!! We got to go to chili’s in celebration lol!

  • RJ N.

    PSSS: I also bought a shirt haha!

  • Matt K

    Dear Buck,
    I’ve developed feelings for a friend of mine,Emily. I’m afraid of making a move because we’re good friends, and I don’t know how my friend, Jake would take it. She was his savior when he went through a bout of depression, but he hasn’t been able to take it whenever I go on dates,etc. Any advice is much appreciated

  • Jesse

    I hope your situation works out for the best :] But also, PS expands to PPS then PPPS, not PSS, PSSS. PS means Post-script. I REALLY hope that wasn’t rude,
    -Jesse.

  • Grant

    Dear Buck,
    I’m 12 Years Old And Want To Be An Actor. It’s Hard To Get Chances For Auditions Cause I Live In Iowa. Anyway There Was An Ad On The Radio For Auditions With Producers From Disney, Nick, etc. . I Asked My Mom If I Could Audition for It She Said The Would Have To Talk About It. I Asked 3 Days Later And They Said No Because They Didn’t Want To Move. I Called Anyway But They Where Already In Another State. I’ve Tried Finding Auditions But It’s Hard To. Do Have Any Advice On What To Do And How To Get My Parents To Let Me Go To L.A. To Audition Or Something.

    Thanks

    Love,
    Grant

  • Jess

    Hey Buck.

    I’m having Lesbian Problems!

    I just found out that my boyfriend might be cheating on me. He’s in the army and stationed in Germany and I’m back home in New York. He has been telling me about these Lesbians that he met and hangs out with there but I think that they are not Lesbians and that he might be cheating on my with one of them. I have his email password and he asked me to make sure his phone bill got paid so I checked it for him and saw messages between him and one of those girls. It seemed like they are more than friends. I didn’t want to tell him that I saw it so I tried to talk to him about it by saying “You love me and would never cheat on my right?” and he just got very defensive and said that I didn’t trust him :/ but didn’t answer it directly. What do you think I should do? Help me Michael Buckley! You’re my only hope! :)

    From, Jess (JekkaBoko in Waiting Room 3)

  • Mickey

    Hey BUCK! I’m moving to NYC in 3 weeks for college and I am SO excited. But also nervous because I’m a bisexual girl, and I am so not used to hitting on girls! I can flirt with guys, but girls are a whole new story.

    SO: How do I put myself out there and be friendly to all genders?

  • Brandy

    Hey Buck,

    I’m about to graduate college and I have NO idea how to become a big girl (but not in weight of course lol). Any advance?

  • Zoey

    Dear Buck,
    Sorry, I know this is kind of heavy but my mom was just diagnosed with Lupus disease, and I really don’t know how to cope with the news, without breaking down? Thanks so much, love the show and love you!
    – Zoey xo

  • Jacob

    Hey Buck and Bucktwin!
    I’m 15 years old, I have a girl who’s a friend who is going to be 16 soon and she’s 1 yr above me in school. She’s is the coolest, nicest person I know and my best friend, but she is kind of a tomboy and hangs out with everyone and is everyone’s friend. She’s never had a bf. How do i know if I should make a move without messing up our friendship?

    Love the show, advice, everything!

    Thanks,
    Jacob :)
    @jacobammon

  • Jacob

    Oh and thanks for the autograph!!! :)

  • liebeRen

    Buck,

    I hope you get to this… I have been getting pushed by my family to sue my doctor that I had my c-section from because due to his negligence I got a MRSA infection. I did not find this out until two weeks later when I went to another doctor and found out the infection was tunneling to my heart and I was dying. I had to have another surgery and now I am limited, connected to a wound VAC (I am constantly losing blood right now)…

    What do you think I should do? Should I follow through with suing because he admitted to me it was his fault…? Figured it was worth asking I really need another opinion.

    Thanks in advance.

  • Jesse

    Also, I don’t have an account on blogtv… It says “guests can’t chat.”

  • Axel

    So I am totally in love with this guy who is a lot older than me. We dated for a while, long distance, but he broke up with me. We are great friends, but I really really miss him. What should I do? Should I hope that he will come back to me or should I try to move on, even though I don’t think I can? :(

  • CamilleSmile(:

    BUCK!! HELP PLEASE!
    I am a 15 year old lesbian and my parents are homophobic. When my girlfriend comes over I tell them shes just a friend, which bothers both of us. I dont Know if I should tell them. If I do tell them what if I get kicked out and I wont have anywhere to go. But if they dont kick me out I have three awkward years left with them. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! DDD:

  • DeArryka (Dee-Erika)

    Dear Buck,
    I live in a predominately black neighborhood.But I’m not the stereotypical “black girl” love country and pop music, despise hip hop and I talk “white”.
    Everyone keeps calling me a white girl and it used to be funny but now it’s getting annoying and hateful. I don’t know how to get them to stop. It’s gotten to the point where people have called me a racist and even my mom is getting in on it.
    I don’t know what to do, please help.

  • Axel

    By the way, I totally think you are AWESOME!!! :D

  • Joaquin

    Hi, Buck. I barely have any friends and is addicted to video games. Any advice for getting friends?

  • Mickey

    Yes, it’s so normal. You are so strong for knowing who you are at 14, and the people around you just have to catch up to your maturity. It’s up to you to decide to whom and when you come out, and it’s not bad or weird to decide not to mention your bisexuality to casual friends. When it feels comfortable and right, do it, but don’t feel like you have to! This is your life and your sexuality!

  • Richjock17

    Hey buck! Hey Buck’s younger sister! How are you? I came out to my parents over the weekend and I am trying to be tolerant with my parents with their views on my lifestyle. They think being gay is a choice but it definitely isnt, let if I choose to pick a life with almost everyone hating on me. Anyways, BEING TOLERANT SUCK CUZ NOTHING IS CHANGING!:( What can I do?

  • Mickey

    Maybe you should talk to Jake! Tell him that you really like her, but that you respect him enough to discuss it with him beforehand. Mind you that you aren’t obligated to get his permission, but it’s a courtesy to let him know.

  • Grant

    ohh and i love you debby your so pretty

  • Timmy Boy

    Hey Buck and Debby

    i really really really love my girlfriend. i think she’s the one. but since were 19 her family doesnt approve of marriage at this age. but i really love her and shes the most beautiful girl in the whole wide world. thing is i havent told her how i felt about it. should i respect her families wishes and just wait or follow my heart and go for it and ask her?

    HELP!!

    thanks guys,
    TIm

  • Mickey

    Grant, for lots of young actors who live away from New York or LA, learning your craft is often the best thing to do! Take acting classes, join drama clubs, and become the best you can be. Your parents might be supportive of you, but you can’t expect them to drop everything to take you to auditions. There is so much you can do on your own, so try it out!

    Also: YOUTUBE! Put up monologues, skits, etc., and you’ll find an audience!

  • Mickey

    Just TELL her! I know it’s hard, but if you say “Hey, I like you a little, do you like me?” it’s so much simpler than trying to flirt or send signals.

  • Mickey

    You’ve gotta move on, sista! His feelings are clear, and while this sounds harsh, you can’t sit around forever pining for him.

    Read this! It helps!
    http://galadarling.com/article/the-break-up-rules

  • Mickey

    Buck has said in the past, and I agree, that you should not come out until after high school, especially if there’s a chance of them reacting so badly. Just get through it, and your life can begin for real in college / after high school. It’s just not worth the risk — and this as someone who just graduated high school, closeted the whole way.

  • Mickey

    You should TALK to her. It’s very strange, and most women agree, that guys have months or years to think about marriage and plan a proposal while the girl has 10 seconds to say yes or no. Maybe your girlfriend has very strong feelings about marriage — it’s her family, so she might not want to alienate them.

  • Sabrina

    hi buck! well im 16 and i just started dating this guy named Zack im currently watching ur live Show im in waiting room #1 well back to Zack i just started datinh him but i ran into him at the movies holding hands with this other girl he told me he loved me and well im in love with him! buck i need help idk what to do one part of me wants to just let this go and forget because he said he takes back doing anything with that girl and to prove it he gave me a necklace with his and my pic in it! but the other side of me wants to dump his ass and tell him to fo Fuck off! what should i do??

  • Jasper

    Hey guys,

    Alot of people think im gay. Now i have nothing against gay people infact one of my best friends is gay. They think im gay because my favorite show is Glee or one of my favorite books is the twilight series or because I love watching ur videos! I know im straight but they think im gay. Does it make me gay cause i like glee or watch twilight movies and read the books or because i love ur videos????

  • Zoey

    Dear Buck,
    Sorry, I know this is kind of heavy but my mom was just diagnosed with Lupus disease, and I really don’t know how to cope with the news, without breaking down? Thanks so much, love the show and love you!
    – Zoey xo

  • Jacob

    That’s what my friend said.. that because she’s so nice she’ll still be my friend… so I’ll tell her tomorrow. Thanks :)

  • Heaven

    Hi Buck. Well, my older brother (he’s 17) is cheating on his girlfriend while she is on a trip, with a 13 year old girl. I really like his girlfriend, she is nice and he says the only reason he’s cheating on her is because she isn’t sexually attractive and is boring (during and not during sex). I told him he should just break up with her, instead of dragging it out cheating on her (which will only make it worse in the end). This is the first time he’s cheated on any of his girlfriends. He said he is mad at himself for it, and because he was “super high” the other night when he first cheated on his girlfriend with this other girl, he now feels obligated to continue having sexual relations with her. I know it isn’t my life and my affairs, but I care about Allie (his girlfriend), and I also care about my brother. My other older brother (19 yrs old) drives him to this girls house, but won’t give him any advice.
    I really don’t like cheaters, and I don’t know what to do. :( I feel so bad for Allie. And because this other girl’s name is Abby, I am thinking about accidentally calling Allie “Abby” a few times, and she will wonder why.
    Do you have any advice?? Thanks (and I love your shows btw) :)

  • Bilson

    Omg! You r like the coolest ever! You’re My rolemodel! Awesome! Soo cool!! Omg i dont know what to say u r so cool! Legendary:)

  • Meghan

    Oh Buck, I need your help!
    My life is looking JUST LIKE A NICHOLAS SPARKS NOVEL! I am not usually the kind of girl who enjoys drama, and so this is killing me. I recently reconnected with a guy who I have know for 13 years. Our families had a falling out a few years ago and we lost touch. But he has grown up into something beautiful and I am really falling for him, and he for me. The only thing is he lives in the town that I just fled from like a fire. He lives across the country from me, and I am considering moving back to my home town just for him. I know it seems like I’m falling far too quickly, but we’ve known each other our entire lives! He is stealing my heart and I am so terrified he will break it, but it is like standing on a cliff. I am scared to jump because I don’t know where I’ll land, but I still want to experience falling. He is everything I have ever wanted and when I look at him I feel like I am looking at my future. What do I do Buck? Do I go back? I can go to college there like I had originally planned… I have tons of friends there. But then I’d be across the country from my mother and 5 year old brother. I want to see him grow up.
    Colton says “Don’t worry. We’ll find each other.”
    But I am still so scared. Help me Buck!

  • Ed

    My dentist hit on me and wants to hook up. We have been sexting for a week. Should I hook up with him? I’m older than 25 years old. If the sex isn’t good will he pull all my teeth next time I see him?

    thanks Buck

    love you, love your show

  • tori

    talk to your brother and tell him that it needs to end and he needs to tell allie. tell him what you would do if you were allie and you found out and tell him what you would do if you were allie and he came out and told you and appologized. he wont feel bad if he makes up for it. and tell your other brother to stop driving him over there too or he will get dragged into all of the drama that follows

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  • Tammy

    It’s taking time for your mom to except it. Our family misses the boy we raised. Her name’s Anna (6 mo.) now. We don’t know who she is. She’s been someone elses for all our memories.
    More responsibility because your a guy?? That’s sexist, isn’t it?

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