Hi Buck =]
I am currently in the middle of my senior year. Something that, to most people my age, should be exciting and liberating. I mean come on, it’s senior year, right? But I don’t really feel so excited or carefree. See, the thing is I have a six month old son, Holden. And I don’t know what I should be doing for next year. I want to be able to go to college like a normal kid, but it’s not that easy. I want to be able to expand my horizons, not only for myself but for my son. All the school that I have looked into that are close to home and that offer the major I’m interested in don’t offer family housing. My parents have offered to keep Holden while I’m at school. But I’d feel like a bad mother if I just left him so I could go to school, and left my parents with a responsibility that is mine. So basically what I’m asking is, Should I forget about school, try to find a different school that offers family housing farther from home, or accept my parents offer?
Welll I know I’m not Buck, but I’m a senior in high school too and this is what I would do if I was in your situation:
I would DEFINITELY go to school. Continuing your education is probably one of the most important things you could do for yourself and for your son. The economy is so bad right now and even people who do go to college are having to take jobs way below their qualifications, so not going to college is probably going to leave you unemployed, and relying on your parents anyway to take care of you and your son. And the other two choices are between you and your family I think, it will be hard to go to school far away from your parents because they can’t really help you take care of him, and it gets expensive if you go out of state. But if you feel like a bad mother leaving him with your parents, then that is something you need to work out with them too. But yeah, I would definitely go and continue your education. That would be the best way to expand your horizons.
I hope that helps! Again I don’t have that much experience but that is what I would do in your situation. Good luck!
So I’ve had a crush on my friend Nathaniel for a while, but he’s with a girl right now (you know this because you’ve done advice for me before). I befriended him a while back, and he knows I like him, but there’s just one problem. I know he likes talking to me, but I’m afraid to ask for his cell phone number in fear that he’ll think I’m trying to flirt with him when he’s taken. I want to do this before the weekend (we get out early at 1 P.M. tomorrow!), but I get really nervous whenever I try to! What do you think I should do to get over my fear? Thanks!!
What Up Buck,
I’m in need of some advice (hopefully less sardonic than Sunday? Lol. Hope you’re feeling better.)
Anyway, Lately I’ve been feeling that I should come out to my parents. But the problem is my parents are, well, close-minded would be an understatement. They just aren’t accepting of much. And, as much as I love them, it isn’t so much them accepting me that I’m worried about. I am currently attending a pretty pricing art school in New York and they are helping me pay for it, and by that I mean they’re basically paying everything. What I’m afraid of is that if I come out to them they would cut me off completely and I would have to drop out, I can’t afford this on my own. I wouldn’t be worried except for the fact that when my older sister came out four years ago that’s exactly what they did. They kicked her out, stopped paying for school, and haven’t talked to her since. I could take the not talking to me thing, and if they kicked me out, fine. But I need the money they are giving me for school. Should I be honest with them or just wait until I finish school?
People in the chat room are still making fun of mkgtweety! And they spoofed her on Twitter and they made a fake account, mkgtweety1 which is mean and they need to stop! Also, could you repeat her advice you gave her a few weeks ago? She missed it.
I’m in my Junior year in high school, and I’m confused about what I should do concerning sexuality. I’ve never really had an attraction to guys, but putting labels on myself scares me, so I’m hesitant to call myself a lesbian. My school would be accepting, so that’s not a problem at all, and I think my mom would be okay with whatever I choose, but my dad worries me. Though he says that he’s alright with gay people, it’s like the, “I’m alright with them if they aren’t my daughter.” sort of thing. Plus, I think he wants me to raise a family and be a “Normal, contributing, member of society.” (He spews this all the time… Ugh. ) I’m wondering if you think it would be okay to tell one of my parents but not the other?
*Hey Its Aaron!!*
Buck, I just turned 18
My Dad found out I’m gay
He is kicking me out
(He is highly against it)
I have no money, and no place to go, i’m still in school.
My mom passed a few years ago….so i’m f*cked at this point..
I don’t know what to do….You told me to be a proud gay last week…
I was….And Now…I’m Fucked.
Aaron Hunter Matthews
Hi Buck,
It’s me again. Sorry, I know when you read this you’re gonna be like UGH! but I really do need your help again. So my friend who just came out to me and my other friend told his guy friends this week. Some of them were okay, but some (including his best friend) aren’t okay with it yet. He’s really upset that his friends aren’t accepting who he is and I want to, again, reassure him that everything will be okay but, also again, I don’t know how to do it. I think that his friends will come around sooner or later but he isn’t as confident in them as I am. Do you know anything that I can say to make him feel better about himself and to reassure him that his friends will come around sometime?
Thank you soo much, you have no idea how lost I am with this and I really need some help. Love your show!
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So, my (kind of best) friend have hung out all thanksgiving break and the thing about her is she will be your best friend whens he is with you and then you turn around and she sort of ignores you and doesnt act like a good friend. As you know Christmas is coming up and IDK if i should get her anything, i know that sounds awful but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Should i try and make our friendship work or should i simply just make new friends? help? thank you -katie.
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So, my (kind of best) friend have hung out all thanksgiving break and the thing about her is she will be your best friend whens he is with you and then you turn around and she sort of ignores you and doesnt act like a good friend. As you know Christmas is coming up and IDK if i should get her anything, i know that sounds awful but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Should i try and make our friendship work or should i simply just make new friends? help? thank you -katie.
Buck, I have an itch that I cant reach… any advice? lol, jk jk!
I might have my first kiss tomorrow, but since its planned, Im really really nervous!! Advice?
I recently saw your “using my gay for good” video. You’ve probably gotten a lot of these but: I am a 14 year old male who is about to come out of the closet, the problem is, i dont know how! Are there any do’s or don’ts to this? greatly aprecciated,
JT
PS- u may think im crazy, but i am an indigo child (psychic). I can look at people from the inside out, strangley enough, through the internet. You are a great, well meaning person. You are what you are and that is perfect. I hope i am like you as i age. again, great appreciation, JT
Hey Buck!
So my boyfriend has been having some family issues, and I recently had a death in my family so now I have all these things to do with my family as well. So neither of us have much time to devote to each other right now. Tuesday we almost broke up, but decided to go on a two week hiatus. He lives in MA and I live in CT. I understand that long distance relationship are hard. I really care about him, and I know he cares about me too. During this time I’ve really missed him because I’ve really wanted to be held and hugged. I’m really emotional right now (obviously). Do you have any advice for keeping our relationship strong, once we get back together?
I have been in love with my best friend for about 4 years now and I would really like to tell him how I feel but I’m afraid about how he would take it. He is the only person I can actually connect too, he can make me smile on the flip of a dime, he’s perfect in my eyes. He moved away and comes back every now and then to visit his mother, so it would be really easy for him to just block me out of his life if I tell him how I feel and he doesn’t feel comfortable with me anymore, I think he may take it Ok because he is so open-minded like that, but it might also freak him out. It might ruin our friendship if I do, and I’ve been his most loyal friend up him so if he feels weird, it’s like I kinda failed at keeping his last loyal friend alive. I don’t know what to do with this situatin. Please give me your advice.
There’s this guy, and everyone says he likes me. A lot of people have even asked me if I’m going out with him. The thing is, he’s really shy and kind of awkward, so I’m not sure if he does like me. According to other people, it’s clear that he does, but I’m not convinced. He teases me a lot, and 95% of the time I’m sure he’s kidding, but lately I haven’t been so sure. He is nice, too. Like, if I’m upset, he’ll stop making obnoxious comments and say something like, “Seriously, are you all right?” Or if I’m nervous about something, he’ll try to calm me down. So is he just a good friend who likes to tease me, or does he like me?
Also, if he does like me, how can I get him to ask me out? He’s not the type of guy to ask someone out. In his only previous relationship, the girl asked him. I could ask him, but I’d feel really uncomfortable doing that, especially since I’m not entirely sure he likes me, or that he’s looking for a relationship. This whole thing with him has been going on for almost a year now, and he still hasn’t made a move. Is he just being shy, or am I wasting my time? Thanks Buck; you’re awesome. :]
Hi Michael, its Carly. I’m having a bit of major guy issues. So I had this friend named Will and he started flirting with me. Sure enough, two weeks later we are dating and in a pretty serious relationship for our age. So I thought.I won’t give you details but let say I really loved him, and I thought he loved me back. He started acting weird after a while and told me he just wanted to be friend, and everything was just a lie to make me feel better. He told me he was too dangerous, but I can’t believe my innocent piano playing singer that goes to church would ever do anything to hurt me. I had to sit by and watch as the guy I love fell for another girl. Now, a month later and I still don’t know how to live without him. Every day something new comes up and worsens the situation. I’ve tried not talking to him but he says he wants to still be my friend. Today, I thought was was apologizing through twitter saying ” Hey, if your not gonna text or talk with me, at least say you don’t want to talk to me and act like the last month never existed. I’m worried about you, like your depressed and just putting on a mask during the day! I wanna try to help, or at least talk to you, its hurting me to think your hurting. I think you know who you are. :-/” So I told him that I just wanted to go back to the way we were before all of this and he tells me he wasn’t talking about me. I’m convinced he doesn’t care about me, and I’m left with feeling hopeless and depressed. I have severe insomnia because I’m too busy crying at night. My friends are turning against me because my depression is killing the mood.I just can’t forget him because I find myself only wanting him more every day. I really need your advice. I’m starting to think there is only one way out of this, and it might kill me. Please, I beg you. Just don’t say “you don’t need him, forget about the whole thing.” I don’t know what to do next. Should I tell him how much he hurt me? or should I stay quiet and just watch our whole friendship die? Thanks so much! <3 -Carly
i am stuck in a love triangle and have no clue what to do.
i have been dating my bf for three almost 4 months but we dont see each other very much because we live so far away. the other guy found me on facebook and he is from my school and he is nice. this is the other the problem was this kid decided to send me a pict of his man area to me. and i told my bf.
I dont know what to do. he wont talk to me. What do I do?
A few months ago, I started being friends with a new guy that started working at my job. Since though, I have started developing strong feelings for him, and I know that he feels the same way about me. The problem is, is that he isn’t the type of guy I want to be with, and many of my friends are advising me to stay away from him, even though I see him many times a week at work, and outside of it. The thing is, is that I know that he does many different types of drugs, and from what I’ve been told, he has dealt drugs as well. For many years I have stayed true to the fact that I don’t want anything to do with drugs, and that I refuse to be in a relationship with someone who is dependent on them, like he seems to be. But do you think that maybe I’m judging him too harshly and should try to get to know him a bit better, or should I stir clear of him like many are advising? Your opinion would mean a lot to me, love you Buck!
Hi Buck
Im a sophomore in college and I hate my friends my own age. I hate being here I like/happy when im home and im with my mom, aunt, and cousin. I know its pathetic i shouldnt want to spend so much time with my mom and aunt but I’m just happy when im with them and I have so much fun with my cousin (who i think is gay but idk he hasnt come out) but hes 22 its not like im hanging out with a 5 year old. but do you think theres something wrong with that, like i know i should find friends and its not like i havent, i just cant find anyone i really like hanging out with id rather be at home.
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So, my (kind of best) friend have hung out all thanksgiving break and the thing about her is she will be your best friend whens he is with you and then you turn around and she sort of ignores you and doesnt act like a good friend. As you know Christmas is coming up and IDK if i should get her anything, i know that sounds awful but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Should i try and make our friendship work or should i simply just make new friends? help? thank you -katie.
Hey buck, i have an issue, i am addicted to miley cyrus, i went to her concert tuesday and i loved it i am a huge fan!, and my friends call me hateful gay slurs, but im not gay. She is just a really good artist. i tell them im not gay, but they dont believe me. what should i do?
Hey Buck
There’s this boy in my class who is really bad. Bad as in sells drugs and has been arrested for violence. He sand a song to me last year to show his hatred towards me. This year he thinks I’m ‘beast.’ Whatever that is. I hated him, but I think I’m falling for him. I hate him, but I think I love him. What should I do??
Yo Buck I need an advice on something: I found out my dad was gay but my mom doesnt know it yet, I’m scared that when she knows it she be mad and she will tell us to dont see him again
Hey Buck, I don’t know if you got my last entry, but I still have my problem. I have a friend who is constantly making up excuses on why she can’t come over or sleep over my house. I don’t mind, but she changes her mind. The first time, it will be because her mom said no. Then a few hours later it’ll be because she had a doctor’s appointment. I normally wouldn’t jump to conclusions, but I’ve had a friend that did this to me before. I really want to know if she’s lying to me, but I don’t want to hurt her feelings. How do I go about this?
P.S. – I love your show! I watch it everytime you’re on blogtv.
heyy buck!
today i had volleyball practice and i noticed my friend giving me looks and ignoring me so when we were done i asked her what was wrong and she started flipping out at me! i just dont know what to do!
thanks!
bridget/ volleyballluver
p.s. i love your show and im watching it now! haha
My friend recently told me hes gay. Early after he tryed to kiss me but I’m straight, but I kissed him anyway and I kinda liked it. But I really don’t feel gay at all. It’s a really weird feeling :S He then asked me if I’m sure if im gay but I really dont know what to answer, I dont even know how I feel inside. Is that normal?
i’m def. not buck, i don’t even think i’m good at advice but, it seems like you need to show her that you can be more than friends with her. and if that doesn’t work, tell her that she should feel better that you guys’ve been friends for that long, instead of you being some random guy asking her out.
hope it helps?[:
Buck, I am very self concious about my weight, and although I have the desire to change, I can’t seem to get motivated to do anything about it! I always want to sleep or I’ll say that I’ll just do it later, and it’s getting ridiculous! Buck, you’re so energetic and skinny and I want the energy you have! Any ideas for motivation for me? Thank you!
buck, [:
i've liked this guy matt since october, [he was in a relationship then.] so i didn’t feel like it was a good idea to tell him. 3/4 weeks later he was single. a couple of days later i was finally going to ask him out, when this girl comes out of left field, and asks him out. i honestly thought it was a joke, until i saw them kiss the next day. she’s tried befriending me since, and now i’m pretty sure she considers me a friend. i really don’t want anything to do with her, but i don’t want to be mean. she obviously means something to matt and i don’t want to risk him not talking to me at all. not bad enough? everyday i walk into the building with him, and most days i he gives me this look, which makes me regret not telling him. and i feel [sorta.] bad for liking him, but i don’t know. help?
p.s, he flirts with me a lot to, and i like it but my concience says otherwise. :l
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Comment by random girl who needs your advice badly
2009-12-06 16:26:46
so yeah, i really need your advice, like, alot. i haven’t been able to get my youth leaders at church to help me, so i figured maybe you would care. i am a 14 year old girl and i have a porn/chat room addiction. i like to be the submissive girl on chat rooms and be virtually spanked and abused sexually. i watch girls being whipped when no one is on chat. i want to stop badly, but every time i am bored i start again. this is even worse because i want to become a student leader at church and i feel so dirty. i have a lot of adults at school i trust, but i would probably be kicked out if they knew. also, there are a few guys who want to come have a rleationship with me. they have no idea i’m 14, and even if i met them, i look like i’m at least 18, so i could get away with it. please buck, please help me.
For the past year, I have been growing my hair to donate it to Locks of Love, planning for it to be the third time for me to do this. What made me decide to do this again is that my aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer last year (which my grandma died of many years ago) and I wanted to do it in honor of her. Also, I recently found out that a close family friend has terminal cancer, so of course I want to do it for her as well, before she passes away, which is going to be very soon from what I gather. The problem is, that ever since I told my best friend, she has not been supportive of my decision at all, saying how I should keep my hair long, and never cut it, and basically dissing my decision in every way she can, mainly because she has long hair and thinks girls should all be feminine in their appearances. My boyfriend of two years is also saying the same thing, but is threatening to leave me if I cut my hair saying (and I quote) that short hair makes me look like a “dyke,” and that he can not be with someone looks like that. I don’t want to lose my boyfriend over donating my hair, and I don’t want to lose the respect of my friend, but doing this means more to me than a lot of people seem to realize, and doing it before our friend passes away is also very important to me. Should I risk my friendship and relationship for this?
buck one i love you so much you make me laugh no matter what you are talking about. BUT!!!! i just found my boyfriend of now 4 months has a kid. what do i do? how should i respond to this?
i am stuck in a love triangle and have no clue what to do.
i have been dating my bf for three almost 6 months but we dont see each other very much because we live so far away. the other guy is my ex and he is crazy about me. this is the other the problem was this kid decided to send me a pict of his man area to me. and i told my bf. (lke a dummy )
I dont know what to do or who to choose.
Hi Buck =]
I am currently in the middle of my senior year. Something that, to most people my age, should be exciting and liberating. I mean come on, it’s senior year, right? But I don’t really feel so excited or carefree. See, the thing is I have a six month old son, Holden. And I don’t know what I should be doing for next year. I want to be able to go to college like a normal kid, but it’s not that easy. I want to be able to expand my horizons, not only for myself but for my son. All the school that I have looked into that are close to home and that offer the major I’m interested in don’t offer family housing. My parents have offered to keep Holden while I’m at school. But I’d feel like a bad mother if I just left him so I could go to school, and left my parents with a responsibility that is mine. So basically what I’m asking is, Should I forget about school, try to find a different school that offers family housing farther from home, or accept my parents offer?
Welll I know I’m not Buck, but I’m a senior in high school too and this is what I would do if I was in your situation:
I would DEFINITELY go to school. Continuing your education is probably one of the most important things you could do for yourself and for your son. The economy is so bad right now and even people who do go to college are having to take jobs way below their qualifications, so not going to college is probably going to leave you unemployed, and relying on your parents anyway to take care of you and your son. And the other two choices are between you and your family I think, it will be hard to go to school far away from your parents because they can’t really help you take care of him, and it gets expensive if you go out of state. But if you feel like a bad mother leaving him with your parents, then that is something you need to work out with them too. But yeah, I would definitely go and continue your education. That would be the best way to expand your horizons.
I hope that helps! Again I don’t have that much experience but that is what I would do in your situation. Good luck!
-Erika
Hey Buck! I really need some advice!!
So I’ve had a crush on my friend Nathaniel for a while, but he’s with a girl right now (you know this because you’ve done advice for me before). I befriended him a while back, and he knows I like him, but there’s just one problem. I know he likes talking to me, but I’m afraid to ask for his cell phone number in fear that he’ll think I’m trying to flirt with him when he’s taken. I want to do this before the weekend (we get out early at 1 P.M. tomorrow!), but I get really nervous whenever I try to! What do you think I should do to get over my fear? Thanks!!
What Up Buck,
I’m in need of some advice (hopefully less sardonic than Sunday? Lol. Hope you’re feeling better.)
Anyway, Lately I’ve been feeling that I should come out to my parents. But the problem is my parents are, well, close-minded would be an understatement. They just aren’t accepting of much. And, as much as I love them, it isn’t so much them accepting me that I’m worried about. I am currently attending a pretty pricing art school in New York and they are helping me pay for it, and by that I mean they’re basically paying everything. What I’m afraid of is that if I come out to them they would cut me off completely and I would have to drop out, I can’t afford this on my own. I wouldn’t be worried except for the fact that when my older sister came out four years ago that’s exactly what they did. They kicked her out, stopped paying for school, and haven’t talked to her since. I could take the not talking to me thing, and if they kicked me out, fine. But I need the money they are giving me for school. Should I be honest with them or just wait until I finish school?
People in the chat room are still making fun of mkgtweety! And they spoofed her on Twitter and they made a fake account, mkgtweety1 which is mean and they need to stop! Also, could you repeat her advice you gave her a few weeks ago? She missed it.
Could you play Tori again for me and mkgtweety?
Live Buck Show = awesomeness <333
Hey Buck, I need some advice,
I’m in my Junior year in high school, and I’m confused about what I should do concerning sexuality. I’ve never really had an attraction to guys, but putting labels on myself scares me, so I’m hesitant to call myself a lesbian. My school would be accepting, so that’s not a problem at all, and I think my mom would be okay with whatever I choose, but my dad worries me. Though he says that he’s alright with gay people, it’s like the, “I’m alright with them if they aren’t my daughter.” sort of thing. Plus, I think he wants me to raise a family and be a “Normal, contributing, member of society.” (He spews this all the time… Ugh. ) I’m wondering if you think it would be okay to tell one of my parents but not the other?
Thanks so much,
Nixie
*Hey Its Aaron!!*
Buck, I just turned 18
My Dad found out I’m gay
He is kicking me out
(He is highly against it)
I have no money, and no place to go, i’m still in school.
My mom passed a few years ago….so i’m f*cked at this point..
I don’t know what to do….You told me to be a proud gay last week…
I was….And Now…I’m Fucked.
Aaron Hunter Matthews
Hi Buck,
It’s me again. Sorry, I know when you read this you’re gonna be like UGH! but I really do need your help again. So my friend who just came out to me and my other friend told his guy friends this week. Some of them were okay, but some (including his best friend) aren’t okay with it yet. He’s really upset that his friends aren’t accepting who he is and I want to, again, reassure him that everything will be okay but, also again, I don’t know how to do it. I think that his friends will come around sooner or later but he isn’t as confident in them as I am. Do you know anything that I can say to make him feel better about himself and to reassure him that his friends will come around sometime?
Thank you soo much, you have no idea how lost I am with this and I really need some help. Love your show!
-Erika
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help? thank you -katie.
So, my (kind of best) friend have hung out all thanksgiving break and the thing about her is she will be your best friend whens he is with you and then you turn around and she sort of ignores you and doesnt act like a good friend. As you know Christmas is coming up and IDK if i should get her anything, i know that sounds awful but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Should i try and make our friendship work or should i simply just make new friends?
BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!
So, my (kind of best) friend have hung out all thanksgiving break and the thing about her is she will be your best friend whens he is with you and then you turn around and she sort of ignores you and doesnt act like a good friend. As you know Christmas is coming up and IDK if i should get her anything, i know that sounds awful but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Should i try and make our friendship work or should i simply just make new friends? help? thank you -katie.
Buck, I have an itch that I cant reach… any advice? lol, jk jk!
I might have my first kiss tomorrow, but since its planned, Im really really nervous!! Advice?
Thanks
Dear Buck,
I recently saw your “using my gay for good” video. You’ve probably gotten a lot of these but: I am a 14 year old male who is about to come out of the closet, the problem is, i dont know how! Are there any do’s or don’ts to this? greatly aprecciated,
JT
PS- u may think im crazy, but i am an indigo child (psychic). I can look at people from the inside out, strangley enough, through the internet. You are a great, well meaning person. You are what you are and that is perfect. I hope i am like you as i age. again, great appreciation, JT
Hey Buck!
So my boyfriend has been having some family issues, and I recently had a death in my family so now I have all these things to do with my family as well. So neither of us have much time to devote to each other right now. Tuesday we almost broke up, but decided to go on a two week hiatus. He lives in MA and I live in CT. I understand that long distance relationship are hard. I really care about him, and I know he cares about me too. During this time I’ve really missed him because I’ve really wanted to be held and hugged. I’m really emotional right now (obviously). Do you have any advice for keeping our relationship strong, once we get back together?
Thanks for your time Michael. <3
I have been in love with my best friend for about 4 years now and I would really like to tell him how I feel but I’m afraid about how he would take it. He is the only person I can actually connect too, he can make me smile on the flip of a dime, he’s perfect in my eyes. He moved away and comes back every now and then to visit his mother, so it would be really easy for him to just block me out of his life if I tell him how I feel and he doesn’t feel comfortable with me anymore, I think he may take it Ok because he is so open-minded like that, but it might also freak him out. It might ruin our friendship if I do, and I’ve been his most loyal friend up him so if he feels weird, it’s like I kinda failed at keeping his last loyal friend alive. I don’t know what to do with this situatin. Please give me your advice.
I forgot to add that sometimes when were hanging out, I feel like sometimes he may look at me the same way I look at him.
There’s this guy, and everyone says he likes me. A lot of people have even asked me if I’m going out with him. The thing is, he’s really shy and kind of awkward, so I’m not sure if he does like me. According to other people, it’s clear that he does, but I’m not convinced. He teases me a lot, and 95% of the time I’m sure he’s kidding, but lately I haven’t been so sure. He is nice, too. Like, if I’m upset, he’ll stop making obnoxious comments and say something like, “Seriously, are you all right?” Or if I’m nervous about something, he’ll try to calm me down. So is he just a good friend who likes to tease me, or does he like me?
Also, if he does like me, how can I get him to ask me out? He’s not the type of guy to ask someone out. In his only previous relationship, the girl asked him. I could ask him, but I’d feel really uncomfortable doing that, especially since I’m not entirely sure he likes me, or that he’s looking for a relationship. This whole thing with him has been going on for almost a year now, and he still hasn’t made a move. Is he just being shy, or am I wasting my time? Thanks Buck; you’re awesome. :]
Hi Michael, its Carly. I’m having a bit of major guy issues. So I had this friend named Will and he started flirting with me. Sure enough, two weeks later we are dating and in a pretty serious relationship for our age. So I thought.I won’t give you details but let say I really loved him, and I thought he loved me back. He started acting weird after a while and told me he just wanted to be friend, and everything was just a lie to make me feel better. He told me he was too dangerous, but I can’t believe my innocent piano playing singer that goes to church would ever do anything to hurt me. I had to sit by and watch as the guy I love fell for another girl. Now, a month later and I still don’t know how to live without him. Every day something new comes up and worsens the situation. I’ve tried not talking to him but he says he wants to still be my friend. Today, I thought was was apologizing through twitter saying ” Hey, if your not gonna text or talk with me, at least say you don’t want to talk to me and act like the last month never existed. I’m worried about you, like your depressed and just putting on a mask during the day! I wanna try to help, or at least talk to you, its hurting me to think your hurting. I think you know who you are. :-/” So I told him that I just wanted to go back to the way we were before all of this and he tells me he wasn’t talking about me. I’m convinced he doesn’t care about me, and I’m left with feeling hopeless and depressed. I have severe insomnia because I’m too busy crying at night. My friends are turning against me because my depression is killing the mood.I just can’t forget him because I find myself only wanting him more every day. I really need your advice. I’m starting to think there is only one way out of this, and it might kill me. Please, I beg you. Just don’t say “you don’t need him, forget about the whole thing.” I don’t know what to do next. Should I tell him how much he hurt me? or should I stay quiet and just watch our whole friendship die? Thanks so much! <3 -Carly
i am stuck in a love triangle and have no clue what to do.
i have been dating my bf for three almost 4 months but we dont see each other very much because we live so far away. the other guy found me on facebook and he is from my school and he is nice. this is the other the problem was this kid decided to send me a pict of his man area to me. and i told my bf.
I dont know what to do. he wont talk to me. What do I do?
Hey Buck!
A few months ago, I started being friends with a new guy that started working at my job. Since though, I have started developing strong feelings for him, and I know that he feels the same way about me. The problem is, is that he isn’t the type of guy I want to be with, and many of my friends are advising me to stay away from him, even though I see him many times a week at work, and outside of it. The thing is, is that I know that he does many different types of drugs, and from what I’ve been told, he has dealt drugs as well. For many years I have stayed true to the fact that I don’t want anything to do with drugs, and that I refuse to be in a relationship with someone who is dependent on them, like he seems to be. But do you think that maybe I’m judging him too harshly and should try to get to know him a bit better, or should I stir clear of him like many are advising? Your opinion would mean a lot to me, love you Buck!
Hi Buck
Im a sophomore in college and I hate my friends my own age. I hate being here I like/happy when im home and im with my mom, aunt, and cousin. I know its pathetic i shouldnt want to spend so much time with my mom and aunt but I’m just happy when im with them and I have so much fun with my cousin (who i think is gay but idk he hasnt come out) but hes 22 its not like im hanging out with a 5 year old. but do you think theres something wrong with that, like i know i should find friends and its not like i havent, i just cant find anyone i really like hanging out with id rather be at home.
BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!
So, my (kind of best) friend have hung out all thanksgiving break and the thing about her is she will be your best friend whens he is with you and then you turn around and she sort of ignores you and doesnt act like a good friend. As you know Christmas is coming up and IDK if i should get her anything, i know that sounds awful but if you were in my shoes you would understand. Should i try and make our friendship work or should i simply just make new friends? help? thank you -katie.
Hey buck, i have an issue, i am addicted to miley cyrus, i went to her concert tuesday and i loved it i am a huge fan!, and my friends call me hateful gay slurs, but im not gay. She is just a really good artist. i tell them im not gay, but they dont believe me. what should i do?
Im 17 and a male by the way
Hey Buck
There’s this boy in my class who is really bad. Bad as in sells drugs and has been arrested for violence. He sand a song to me last year to show his hatred towards me. This year he thinks I’m ‘beast.’ Whatever that is. I hated him, but I think I’m falling for him. I hate him, but I think I love him. What should I do??
~With Love, Crissy
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Yo Buck I need an advice on something: I found out my dad was gay but my mom doesnt know it yet, I’m scared that when she knows it she be mad and she will tell us to dont see him again
Hey Buck, I don’t know if you got my last entry, but I still have my problem. I have a friend who is constantly making up excuses on why she can’t come over or sleep over my house. I don’t mind, but she changes her mind. The first time, it will be because her mom said no. Then a few hours later it’ll be because she had a doctor’s appointment. I normally wouldn’t jump to conclusions, but I’ve had a friend that did this to me before. I really want to know if she’s lying to me, but I don’t want to hurt her feelings. How do I go about this?
P.S. – I love your show! I watch it everytime you’re on blogtv.
heyy buck!
today i had volleyball practice and i noticed my friend giving me looks and ignoring me so when we were done i asked her what was wrong and she started flipping out at me! i just dont know what to do!
thanks!
bridget/ volleyballluver
p.s. i love your show and im watching it now! haha
Hey Buck
My friend recently told me hes gay. Early after he tryed to kiss me but I’m straight, but I kissed him anyway and I kinda liked it. But I really don’t feel gay at all. It’s a really weird feeling :S He then asked me if I’m sure if im gay but I really dont know what to answer, I dont even know how I feel inside. Is that normal?
Hey buck
I like this girl but she said we were friends for too long and we were friends for 6 years and i keep asking her but she says no.
Any advice buck plz i need it
i’m def. not buck, i don’t even think i’m good at advice but, it seems like you need to show her that you can be more than friends with her. and if that doesn’t work, tell her that she should feel better that you guys’ve been friends for that long, instead of you being some random guy asking her out.
hope it helps?[:
Buck, I am very self concious about my weight, and although I have the desire to change, I can’t seem to get motivated to do anything about it! I always want to sleep or I’ll say that I’ll just do it later, and it’s getting ridiculous! Buck, you’re so energetic and skinny and I want the energy you have! Any ideas for motivation for me? Thank you!
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i've liked this guy matt since october, [he was in a relationship then.] so i didn’t feel like it was a good idea to tell him. 3/4 weeks later he was single. a couple of days later i was finally going to ask him out, when this girl comes out of left field, and asks him out. i honestly thought it was a joke, until i saw them kiss the next day. she’s tried befriending me since, and now i’m pretty sure she considers me a friend. i really don’t want anything to do with her, but i don’t want to be mean. she obviously means something to matt and i don’t want to risk him not talking to me at all. not bad enough? everyday i walk into the building with him, and most days i he gives me this look, which makes me regret not telling him. and i feel [sorta.] bad for liking him, but i don’t know. help?
p.s, he flirts with me a lot to, and i like it but my concience says otherwise. :l
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so yeah, i really need your advice, like, alot. i haven’t been able to get my youth leaders at church to help me, so i figured maybe you would care. i am a 14 year old girl and i have a porn/chat room addiction. i like to be the submissive girl on chat rooms and be virtually spanked and abused sexually. i watch girls being whipped when no one is on chat. i want to stop badly, but every time i am bored i start again. this is even worse because i want to become a student leader at church and i feel so dirty. i have a lot of adults at school i trust, but i would probably be kicked out if they knew. also, there are a few guys who want to come have a rleationship with me. they have no idea i’m 14, and even if i met them, i look like i’m at least 18, so i could get away with it. please buck, please help me.
Hey Buck!
For the past year, I have been growing my hair to donate it to Locks of Love, planning for it to be the third time for me to do this. What made me decide to do this again is that my aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer last year (which my grandma died of many years ago) and I wanted to do it in honor of her. Also, I recently found out that a close family friend has terminal cancer, so of course I want to do it for her as well, before she passes away, which is going to be very soon from what I gather. The problem is, that ever since I told my best friend, she has not been supportive of my decision at all, saying how I should keep my hair long, and never cut it, and basically dissing my decision in every way she can, mainly because she has long hair and thinks girls should all be feminine in their appearances. My boyfriend of two years is also saying the same thing, but is threatening to leave me if I cut my hair saying (and I quote) that short hair makes me look like a “dyke,” and that he can not be with someone looks like that. I don’t want to lose my boyfriend over donating my hair, and I don’t want to lose the respect of my friend, but doing this means more to me than a lot of people seem to realize, and doing it before our friend passes away is also very important to me. Should I risk my friendship and relationship for this?
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buck one i love you so much you make me laugh no matter what you are talking about. BUT!!!! i just found my boyfriend of now 4 months has a kid. what do i do? how should i respond to this?
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i am stuck in a love triangle and have no clue what to do.
i have been dating my bf for three almost 6 months but we dont see each other very much because we live so far away. the other guy is my ex and he is crazy about me. this is the other the problem was this kid decided to send me a pict of his man area to me. and i told my bf. (lke a dummy )
I dont know what to do or who to choose.
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