Live Show 8/9/09

My friend likes my other friend who thinks he’s emo and she likes me. I have no idea what to do! I’m in a love triangle! What do I do?!?!?!?!!?

Do something in which your sexual orientation is clearly shown through words and/or actions.

dear michael,
my friend seems to think she knows everything about anything, and it’s really starting to get annoying. how do i tell her nicely that she doesn’t and to back off a bit.
thanks! love chelsea. =)

hey buck. my best friend (a guy) is gay. I have a crush on him. Do you find this weird or abnormal?

Thanx!

~Ally

Ps. I’m a girl.

PPs. Did you know that 10% of women in America have a gay best friend? LOL

I’m on a part in a video game i’m playing, these 2 people get attacked by other people you are supossed to save one of them i save one and then something blows up and i die, what should i do?!

Hey Buck,

I love a guy who i’ve known for 6 years, but i don’t know if he feels the same or not…should i ask him out on a date?

Hi Buck! First off, I love your show; you’re so funny!

Okay, I have a huge crush on my best guy friend and I don’t think he feels the same way. I’m not sure how to approach the situation. I’m also really shy, which doesn’t help at all. Any advice??

So I dated this guy for almost a year, and we got into a fight before we broke up, and moved..so now he is calling me acting like everything is okay..what should I do? I’m the one to hold grudges, but somehow I feel like I can forgive him. But he is such a jerk..what do I do?

how can i get people like you (popular people) on youtube to watch my vlogs and talk about them on their channels??

Hey Buck,

I have a straight guy jock friend who is really cute and doesn’t care that I am gay. I’m sure he’s not gay but he does things that makes me and my other two friends wonder. He doesn’t mind when I touch him or pretend to come on to him. Is he gay or does he just like the attention whether it’s from a guy or a girl?

Hi Buck,

The girl i was with for the last 6 months just left me and i dont know how to go on.

We were in love but she left me and is with some idiot now.

She was my best and only friend.
She was my whole world.

Now im having panic attacks everyday and i cant eat anymore.
Sometimes dont feel like bothering with life anymore.

What would you do?

Thank You

hey buck, i’ve missed your show for a long time and can’t wait for the one tonight.

i do need some advice though. i started my new job as a resident assistant last week and i’m in the middle of 10 days of training. i thought that i had been doing pretty well with learning everything that i need to know to be successful and i’ve been trying to be involved with ideas for the building, which usually ends with me being told that i’m just full of stupid ideas and goals that are too lofty.

my boss today pulled me aside and told me that he thought i was rude [because i waited for everyone else on the staff to be quiet before speaking], too blunt when someone asks my opinion, and that i wasn’t contributing to anything in the building.
i’ve always kind of believed in that one dr. seuss quote “be who you are because those that mind don’t matter and those that matter don’t mind’ and i hate putting on a facade just so i can do a job and i can’t just drop everything and change my personality for the staff and be different for my residents. is there some way that i can totally be myself and do my job or am i going to have to make a “staff meeting” personality, “dealing with residents” personality, and my regular self?
i’m good on the contributing part, i just think that my point of view with ideas is slightly different from the other 12 people i’m working with.

thanks!

Hey Buck. So I’ve known this guy for ten years now. We’re really close-knit but this year we went to a party together and an amusement park. I’ve seem to have grown feelings for him. I think he likes me too but I’m not that sure. He asked me if I wanted to go to get coffee Would u consider this being asked out or just hanging out as friends?

hey, my boyfriend is in the United States Marines and was just deployed, do you have any advise for me as to how i should raise our child without him here? its really hard.

love you SOO MUCHO!!
Nicholle♥♥

I am 36 years old and have two older brothers who are 45 and 43 years old. A few years ago my mother became very ill and to make a long story short, feelings got hurt and my brothers accused me of trying to take advantage of our mother when all I ever did was try to help her. Now my mother is in better health but she did suffer brain damage from an aneurysm. It has been 9-10 years since my mother’s aneurysm and my 2 brothers still will not have anything to do with me. Although we were never a close knit family I can’t help but feel that it is weird that my brothers will not even sit down and have a discussion with me.

Our mother refuses to get involved and my father killed himself years ago so I can not get him involved. I have not seen one of my brothers for 10 years and the other brother I saw for 30 minutes a few months ago but that was by accident because we were both at my mom’s house at the same time (unplanned). I asked him point blank if he wanted to try to get to know each other now that 10 years has passed and he said that he did not think that was a good idea. I think it is sad.

I have a neice and nephew I have never met because my brothers will not speak with me. My husband tells me that since I have reached out to my brothers over the years and they have rejected my attempts for a reunion that I should let it be…that at least I can feel sure that I did all I could. He feels it is their loss, not mine.

What should I do…ignore my brothers like they have ignored me and consider them dead or continue to push for some sort of relationship? What are your thoughts?

Hey Buck,
How’s it going?

A year ago, I met a guy who became a very close friend. It started as friendly conversations about personal interests and then developed into comedic arguments about how things were invented and such. Well, several months ago, he had changed. He had started obsessively picking on me by pointing out all my flaws and by that, he started to joke around with it. I was okay with it at first, but after awhile, I started noticing that no matter how I feel, he’ll always pick on me, sad or happy. Plus, to conclude, he started calling me “baby” b/c he thought it was “catchy.” A month ago, I decided to confront him and tell him how I felt that he has changed and that this friendship no longer felt the same. He hung up, blocked me online, and stopped responding. I gave him time to cool down and now he still won’t talk to me. It has been over a month now. I’m not sure what to do. Did the friendship turn into something more?

P.S. Do you think you can do a sequel to the homersexual series?

I have a close friend that recently turned 18. I know he’s a nice guy, but he always acts rather obnoxiously. About every week or two he has a brand new relationship and every time he says he’s fully committed and wants to move cross-country to be with them but has never done so. He’s never been with the same person for more than a few weeks, and I can’t convince him that doing these full-committed but short-lived relationships will ultimately not work out well for him. I don’t know what to do at this point.

hey michael,

i’m having trouble choosing my favourite jonas brother. it’s between joe & nick (sorry kevin). i used to like joe but all this crying in public stuff is annoying me. also, i’ve always thought nick’s super-small eyes are creepy. help!

My family is been screwed for the past three years, My mom was robbed where she works, my dad lost his job, 8 family members died. And my father has turned into a major drunk. Lately, My father has been threatening my mother and I, although he has never hurt us ( except for one time when he ” accidently ” threw a vodka bottle at my mother ) I am still terribly afraid of him. I have no idea what to do, should I forget about it? Should I see a doctor? Please help me..

Hey Buck,

My parents told me yesterday they are getting divorced. They said I can go see theropy(I think theropy’s helpless) and my mom is guilting me to go. Honestly, I don’t WANT to go, though. What do I do? And you don’t have to answer if you don’t want…

There’s a man stalking my friends and I, I say stalking, but I actually mean he scares us all on msn. we don’t know where he came from, when we ask him questions he says. ‘i am gay boy’ and trys to get us on webcam, he said to one of my friends ‘I not meet you, and you not my types of my boys’.
I’d like to know if you can give advice on as to how I go about hunting this man down and giving him a good punch in the bracket.

yours sincerly

ps. rule Britannia!

Hey, it’s Merve. last time i asked u why u did bucknews when u had WHATTHEBUCKSHOW. thanks for answering. I have a problem. There is a girl i hate, because she thinks she is so perfect and she is mean to me. My mom is the best friend of her mom so i have to see her even more than my real friends. its discussting. she acts like she’s my friend next to my mom and in school she is a real bit**. HELP ME, what can i do ??

PS: she’s out of school, because she was too stupid for it. but still, they come to visit =(

I’ve been in love with this guy for a year and a half. It wasn’t until December 2008 when I realized he loved me back. I always had a feeling he was gay, or at least bisexual, but I never thought he would love me. Unfortunately, I’m a really nervous guy, and a girl got to him before me. They’ve been together since March, and it pains me every day I think about it or him. School starts August 12th for me, I don’t know if we’ll have any classes together, and I want to get closer to him. What should I do? Thanks!!

Do you think it is normal for teenage boys to experiment sexually with each other?

ok i’m baby / nanny {i’ve babysitted and nannyed b4!!!! i have 12 years of working w/ children and i’ve taken vo-tech child care class while in hs!!!!! i want 2 b a preachool teacher and have my own preschool called “happy hearts” preschool!!!} now i have gone thourgh peridos of not having ne jobs and things like that!!!!!! but now since the emcomy as the way it is i find it harder and harder 2 get jobs!!!!!! what can or should i do????? ne help is mucho ok!!!!!!

love and lippy,
mkgtweety

I want to be healthier in my hectic life, what are some good tips?

Thanks!

well im 13 years old and i love comedy my friends say im funny and i know there not lying cause sometimes they can be brutaly honest i would really like to be an actress when i grow up and i would like to make my start on youtube should i wait one or two years till im older or should i do it now?
Thank You! Have a nice day, ANGIE

How can I convince my best internet friend to co host with me on my show? We talk to each other for hours at a time but she is nervous about broadcasting for the first time. Could you give her a confidence boost? Her name is Katrina and she is in the main room at your show.

Buck!!

I have a question that I’ve been dying to ask… Are you a celebrity in your town or is it more like, oh hey it’s that guy or do people not even care?

Thanks a bunch,
xoxo

Nathalie

I have recently come out to my friends but then my entire school found out. Some people tease me and others are super nice. I have no clue how to deal with the mean people or stuff like that. I figured as an awesome gay man ur self you can help out a 16 year old gay guy. I just want to know how you dealt with the haters when you came out?

Hey Buck

I need to know can guys were scarves. the reason I ask this is cuz I want to get one but I dont want to be made fun of.

Hi Buck!
Last year a girl spread a nasty rumor about me. It was about me asking a guy for sex (which NEVER happened) and it completely ruined my 7th grade year. Yeah, I’m young. Whatever. Anyway, this year I want to change EVERYONES opinion about me. I have to change peoples perception, because now I’m the girl who was the slut of the school in 7th grade. Do you have any advice on doing this? I don’t want to change myself, I just want to change how others think of me.

Also, for curiosity’s sake, has this ever happened to anyone you know?

Thanks for taking the time to read this. I love WTBS!

i screwed up.. BIG TIME im not telling u what but iv considered suicide wut do i do

Buck,

Im in pharmacy school, my third year and only one more year to go, I realized its not what i want to do anymore, im already 87,000 dollars in debt from loans, what should I do!!!!

I need some friend advice.
When I was broke and had no place to live,my friend Ashley let me move in with her. I stayed there for awhile and then she told me that they were going to take her house if she didn’t pay all of the rent. She spends her money at night clubs and gets her hair and nails done. My sister Casey said that it would be o.k. if I paid the rent at her place.
I didn’t want to let Ashley down but she asked her jobless boyfriend to move in when she promised she wouldn’t! WHAT should I do?
Thanks,
Emily!

How can I tell my friend whos codependent that i’d rather not hear about her “new boyfriend” without sounding like a bad friend. She gets a new one every week it seems and I cant even get they’re names anymore…

hi buck! this is the first time i’ve ever asked for advice. i hope you’ll pick me. anyway, here goes:

i have a crush at work on a guy (i’m a guy) and he’s straight, as far as i know, but he seems to be a bit flirty with me. he certainly acts differently around me than with other male coworkers (even a female coworker who is a friend has noticed). i guess my question is, how can i find out if he likes me. or if that is too much of an open-ended or difficult question to answer, what should i do to…i guess temper my feelings a bit? i don’t really know what other question to ask besides how to find out if he feels anything for me.

Hey Buck, this guy I am friends with is going to the same college as me, and I want to become a little more than friends. How can I ask him to hang out alone without seeming creepy?

I dunno what is happening to me lately. I like these classic teevee shows but I wish I could watch them in like five minutes. These erm like mini sitcoms, mini show thingies. It’s getting out of controll like I am some kind of, erm like Maniac or something. I dunno what to do! Helllppp!!

PS: Kelly Bundy stole your bounce!

dear Buck,

my best friend is really mad at me and she wont tell me why so i started asking other ppl y she was so mad and none of them knew so i asked her boyfriend and she txted me sayin i was such a bitch 4 askin her boyfriend. I even tried apologizeing (3 times!) for what i dont know i did and she still wont talk 2 me… WHAT DO I DOOOOO!

Hey-
School starts tomorrow. It’s a new school.
People say it’s normal to be nervous. But I’m not nervous. Is that normal?

Hello Buck,

I am asking for advice for my best friend he is totally in love with his friend( not me she is a girl) he tried to kiss her and she let him get an inch close before she stopped him. Now the are friends on and off like everyday. I can no longer stand to be friends with her because she said some things to me in confidence and pretty much said my best friends feelings don’t mean anything to her. WHAT SHOULD HE DO??? be friends with her and try to get back to where they were before he fell in love with her or should he just drop her.

youtube name: scrabsi this is just in case you would rather private messege me on youtube rather than answer this in your live advice section thanks Buck I love you.

Dear Buck,

What do you do to cope with a lot of stress? Im to the point of giving up, and Im not the one to give up, but Im tied of everything. What do you think i should possibly do to cope better, or just last long enough for two years when i get to move out?

i mean tired*

I want a Iphone. Should I get The black or White? I like the white but, my friends will call me gay cus they can’t get with the program. But, The black is “okay”

I’ve been having a rough year but no one really knows the extent of it because I don’t like to complain but everytime I think things are getting better something else happens that just gets me frustrated and tired all over again and I don’t have a bffl or whatever the american term is. Sometimes I just feel so unbelievably helpless and I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if there is any way you can help me but I just needed to vent to someone who wasn’t involved in my everyday life. Although if you have it, any advice is appreciated.

Heey Buck !!

I really like a guy, but he lives on the opposite side of the world as me (I’m from Canada, and he’s from Korea) that I met a month ago. It sounds really stupid, and I’ve tried to ‘move on’, but I really like him, and I can’t seem to stop thinking about him.

Laura

Dear… MY IDOL!.,

My best guy friend is dating a TOTAL BITCH!. she wont let him talk to me anymore, she wont let us have ANY contact!. and shes making his life SOOOO bad!. Should i beat the shit out of her?. and tell her to back the fuck off?. plz tell me wht to do?.

ty Buck (:

-Brittney <333

Blogtv username: jbfans3

Dear Buck,

hey i need your help, you see i like this guy, who at first like me, then when i really get to liking him, he don’t like me anymore.Plus we got off on the wrong foot at the end of the school year,last year. Now i just want to be friends with him, but i still like him in that way, how do i apologize for my love crazyness, and start over with him?

P.s Tell Kooljeffrey, that mymy liking that! <3

~Thanks <3

These girls keep on prank calling me and TALKING SHIT ABOUT YOU!. and LOVE you!. but i dont want to hit them cuz its rong… but i want to bash there face in cuz wthey dont even noe half of the things i noe about you, but they talk shit about you!> tell me wht to do Buck… PLZ?.

ive just started being friends with this girl, and shes so fun and i love her ! but shes alot prettier and nicer than me. so shes hard to hate ! im not used to not being the center of attention. when we hang she always gets the guys, and everyones focused on her ! then she talks about her life (perfect boyfriend, complaining about her body when shes super skinny etc etc) and i get jealous and upset. should i just tell her to maybe lay off talking about it, or just try and let it not bother me so much?

thanks buck !

Plz Give a shout out to my brother and my sister in law for there almost 1 year Anniversary. (:… ty… they are SOOOO nice people!…. and also my Sisters Nichole and Lynn… cuz they are the BEST sisters in the world… we may fight but i still love them (:

Hi Buck!

I just have a quick question. I’m going into highschool this year but really don’t like the public highschool in my town. It focuses on athletic (I’m really not an athlete…) but I want to be an artist (its arts program sucks). There’s a public school a town over that offers the school choice program (kids can choose to go there from anywhere). I’ve been trying to get my parents to enroll me there for months but they don’t understand why I can’t just go to the school in my town. I feel that going to the school in my town would hurt my future as an artist. What should I do?

Much Love,
Nicole

Heiya…
I’m a boy, And I guess i got one of the most common gay problems there is (._.”) I got a HUUUUUUUGGGGEEEE crush on a strait guy. Yeah, I know, Its just to move on… BUT here comes my question; Do you have any tips on how to move on if you’ve fallen in love with someone that don’t like you the same way has he/She likes you?

(Sorry for my crappy english, Im swedish so english isnt my 1st languge)

Hey, me and my best friend Kylie are hopelessly obsessed with Green Day, what do we do buck!?!

I honestly can’t figure out how to tell the girl of my dreams how I feel about her without weirding her out. I can’t get her out of my head. Maybe you can help. Am I just a moron that needs to get over it?

Dear Buck,
What is your favorite song?
And say hi.

Canaan

I’m worried I’m becoming a bother to my lover because I ask him to draw me things so much…. I can’t draw at all and he can, AWESOMELY…… what do I do???? Am I wrong for asking him to draw me so many things?

Okay, this is a weird advice….I have a dog who’s twelve, getting arthritis, and going deaf, I think it’s almost her time to die, so, should I start, not interacting with her, so that I won’t be so sad when she passes, or give her the best time of her life, so she can have a good time before she dies? I love this dog so much, had her since she was a pup, and not ready for this, help?

hi buck. my parents divorced a while ago, and now i dont see my dad as much as i would like. i love him a lot and i really want to see him more, but he lives far away and i only get see him once a month. but he’s busy with work a lot, and i don’t want to complain and MAKE him see me more. i want him to WANT to see me. i just want to spend a little more time with him. what do you think i should do?

So, I am gay and I haven’t told anybody. That isn’t my problem: my problem is that I don’t know how I should act when I socialize. I would like to act like myself, a fun outgoing (flamboyant) person like I do to some of my gay friends or the quiet less fun straight boy in front of the rest of the world. Its a conflict on how I present myself to everyone for now…Any help?

My plan is to move to NYC after I graduate this year. Do you think I’m insane? Any advice?

Buck, what is a good way to get more noticed on YouTube? I already have 582 subscribers and 16,000 channel views with 4 videos over 1,000 views. One has 270,000. Any tips? haha I know that was a mouthfull XD

Buck, what is a good way to get more noticed on YouTube? I already have 582 subscribers and 16,000 channel views with 4 videos over 1,000 views. One has 270,000. Any tips? haha I know that was a mouthfull XD

http://www.youtube.com/user/PioneersProductions

I have been very down for a while now. and i feel the urge to go back to a way i used to deal with it. i know that it is not healthy to deal with it in that manner. i was just wondering, what should i do?

hey buck =)
so last school year i think i fell pretty hard over this one insanely hot guy… but we were just friends. but everytie i tried to get over him, people kept saying that he likes me, or that we would be such a cute couple, AND he always flirted with me. and i mean A LOT! i luved it. but i was going to tell him how i felt but i just couldn’t do it. and on the last day of school he hugged me! then he just left before i could say ANYTHING! i know, what the hell?! and as you know its summer and i haven’t heard from him in 63 days. i really want to call him, or see him, but i just can’t get myself to pres “send”!!! i just don’t know how to face him since he left. help me?

<3 Monica
P.S. im a girl. lol!

Buck, what is a good way to get more noticed on YouTube? I already have 582 subscribers and 16,000 channel views with 4 videos over 1,000 views. One has 270,000. Any tips? haha I know that was a mouthfull XD

http://www.youtube.com/user/PioneersProductions

Is it wierd that i like a fictonal cartoon character? i think it is? do you?

Hey Buck!
First I wanna say that I love your show and that I think your amazing!

Well, Lets see here. I’m 14. Um, I like this guy and hes 18. But all my friends say hes ugly and Im stupid for hanging around with him(they dont know I liike him). But I serched him on myspace and it took 2 hours to find him but now I cant get up the nerve to add him. Yea I know im stupid for serching him then not add ing but…

I’m not gonna be able to watch the live show because my computer restrictions but maybe you could message me the awnser??…Haha

But uh..yea
myspace.com/cullenized

Hey,

I’m 15 and I want to come out to my parents soon. I start school Tuesday and I will be a 10th grader. My parents are very religious and my dad has said that “gay people deserve to die and burn in hell.” Can you give me any advice on coming out? and What was it like for you?